Shifting from Harm to Harmony

Human Capital Risk: 5 Steps to Resolve Conflict & Protect the Bottom Line

 “You don’t rise to the level of your strategy. You fall to the level of your relationships.”

Organizations often have risk management protocols for cyber threats, legal exposure, or financial volatility, but do they assess the elements that shape their human capital risk? Unfortunately, these risks are rarely named and discussed, let alone addressed.

Unresolved conflict, miscommunication, and team tension and breakdowns cost companies far more than they realize. Beyond interpersonal drama, they lead to project delays, lost innovation, employee attrition, and, ultimately, reputational damage.

Why This Matters Now

As the workforce evolves across generations, cultures, and working styles, the cost of poorly managed conflict is rising.

According to the CPP Global Human Capital Report, U.S. employees spend nearly 2.8 hours each week dealing with conflict, amounting to $359 billion in paid hours annually.

That’s not just lost time, it’s lost energy, trust, and collaboration. And yet, most organizations wait until the damage is done to act.

How Conflict Impacts the Bottom Line

Unaddressed conflict depletes resources in many different ways.

  1. Productivity Drain

Team members caught in tension spend more time avoiding one another than collaborating. Individuals become siloed and protective of their own information, reputations, and power. Rather than sharing information, materials, and ownership of success with others, teams focus on their own needs and lose sight of the bigger picture, including the organizational mission or even bottom-line. This leads to stalled or crippled projects, piled up emails, team confusion, low morale, and dragging productivity. In one study, over 85% of employees reported having dealt with conflict at some point, and 25% said it caused absenteeism or sickness (CPP, 2008).

  1. Talent Attrition

Conflict with managers or coworkers is one of the top three reasons people leave jobs. Moreover, high performers often walk away silently, without ever being asked what went wrong. All too often, organizations either skip or excuse data from exit interviews, losing valuable information and feedback on team weaknesses, skills deficits, and more.

  1. Culture Contamination

Workplace tensions don’t stay contained, rather they can spread like a virus and infect the entire culture. People gossip or emotionally shut down, psychological safety erodes, and before executive leadership or a board of directors is even aware, the conflict is no longer between two people and has affected the entire system.

  1. Innovation Freeze

Conflict avoidance kills creativity. When teams are tiptoeing around issues, they’re not sharing bold ideas, probing for best results, or sharing vital feedback or information. Playing it safe means withholding information that can cost dearly in fast-moving markets.

What Can Be Done?

Conflict is inevitable, but when handled well, it can become a source of clarity, connection, and improvement. Here are five steps to mitigate the human capital risk posed by workplace conflict:

  1. Normalize Proactive Conflict Conversations
  • Instead of conflict being the elephant in the room, make it a standard agenda item.
  • Add “tensions or challenges we’re noticing” to team meetings.
  • Host harmony-building conversations after stressful moments.

Patrick Lencioni’s The Five Dysfunctions of a Team emphasizes that “the fear of conflict is one of the biggest barriers to team effectiveness.”

  1. Build Conflict Literacy Across the Organization
  • Train not just leaders, but all staff in basic conflict management and communication skills.
  • Use frameworks like Nonviolent Communication (NVC) or the Thomas-Kilmann Model to help with self-reflection and skills-building.
  • Offer regular refreshers or learning circles.
  1. Invest in Ombuds and Conflict Coaches

Third-party practitioners help to:

  • Prevent conflict from escalating.
  • Serve as a confidential space for early resolution.
  • Be a thought-partner for managers and executives to navigate through conflict and improve structures and processes.
  • Offer systemic insight on recurring issues.
  1. Track the Hidden Metrics

Start tracking “invisible” conflict indicators:

  • Voluntary turnover after unresolved disputes.
  • Absenteeism spikes during or after organizational change.
  • Anonymous culture audit feedback.

Numbers tell one part of the story, and patterns reveal the human capital risk landscape.

  1. Create Rituals for Repair and Reintegration

Mistakes and miscommunications are inevitable. What matters is how teams come back together.

  • Use post-conflict debriefs.
  • Design “re-entry” conversations after major breakdowns.
  • Practice appreciative inquiry to rebuild relationships.

Think about conflict as data, and continuously ask yourself and your teams: what are you learning or avoiding from conflict?

Human tension and conflicts aren’t inherent liabilities. In fact, they can be untapped sources of insight. Organizations that proactively engage with conflict don’t just reduce risk – they unlock resilience, creativity, and trust.

Managing human capital risk doesn’t mean eliminating conflict – rather, it means shifting from potential harm to harmony.

 

Tools and Resources

TED Talk by Amy Gallo: The Gift of Conflict

Patrick Lencioni: The Five Dysfunctions of a Team

HBR: The Leader’s Guide to Corporate Culture

CPP Global: Workplace Conflict and How Businesses Can Harness It to Thrive

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Melody Wang

Melody Wang is a Conflict Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group and CEO of Wang Mediation, which she founded upon graduation from the University of Southern California, Gould School of Law with an MA in Alternative Dispute Resolution. Melody is a panel mediator for the New York City Family Court and serves on the Board of Directors at the Association for Conflict Resolution, Greater New York (ACR-GNY). Prior to moving to New York, Melody was an experienced civil and community mediator in Los Angeles, California, working closely with non-profits, small claim courts and the California federal court. She also led selected trainings and workshops on dispute resolution within the Asian-American community in California.  Melody has lived in the U.S., Taiwan, China and Singapore, is fluent in English, Mandarin Chinese and Taiwanese, and especially enjoys engaging in international relations and cross-cultural conflict systems.

Dara Rossi

Dara Rossi, Ph.D. is a Conflict & Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. She has more than 20 years of experience in the field of education and has worked with students from kindergarten through the university graduate level. Additionally, she has facilitated professional development for educators and administrators across all points on the education continuum. After10 years of service in the Department of Teaching and Learning Southern Methodist University, she launched her coaching and consulting business while continuing to serve as an adjunct professor. She holds a PhD in Curriculum and Instruction, an MBA, an MA in Dispute Resolution, and an MAT in Education, and BS in Human Development.

Isar Mahanian

Isar Mahanian, M.Sc. is a Conflict & Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. She is an active mediator who coaches new mediators in the program in which she serves. Isar has worked at a fast-paced technology start-up as the Head of Human Resources, leading senior executives to mitigate and resolve workplace conflicts and creating system level improvements for employees within the company. She holds a Master’s of Science degree in Negotiation and Conflict Resolution from Columbia University. 

Kimberly Jackson Davidson

Kimberly Jackson Davidson is currently the University Ombudsperson at George Mason University and member of the Harmony Strategies Group. She spent two decades at Oberlin College in Ohio, holding positions in the Office of the Dean of Students and as Visiting Lecturer in African American Studies. During her final five and a half years there, she served all campus constituencies as Ombudsperson and Director of the Yeworkwha Belachew Center for Dialogue (YBCD). Davidson is active within the International Ombuds Association (IOA), the California Caucus of College and University Ombuds (CCCUO), and the Ombuds Section of the Association for Conflict Resolution (ACR). She earned a B.A. in English Literature from Spelman College in 1986 and an M.A. from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in African Literature in 1991.

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Hector Escalante is an experienced Ombuds and learning and development professional with over seven years of ombuds experience and over twenty years of experience developing and teaching course offerings which promote inclusion, healthy communication, and conflict resolution. He is the Director of the Ombuds Office at the University of California, Merced, having served many years as the organizational ombuds at the University of the Pacific. He is an ombuds partner with Harmony Strategies Group, and a consulting ombuds for Earthjustice and Union of Concerned Scientists.  Hector holds two master’s degrees and a doctorate in education. He is a United States Marine Corps veteran, a husband and father to four children. Hector’s passions include treating all with fairness, equity, dignity, and compassion and good food. 

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Stuart Baker is a Conflict and Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. He combines decades of professional experience in the construction industry as a general contractor and carpenter and blends his project management with mediation, facilitation and workshop presentations on dispute resolution. Based on his unique combination of skills and expertise, Stuart authored the book Conscious Cooperation, a practical guide on strategic planning and negotiation for the construction and homebuilding communities. Stuart brings a broad sensitivity to his consulting work and has mediated disputes large and small – from international corporate disputes to family conflicts. Likewise, Stuart coaches and consults individuals facing business, community, religious, or family challenges. He enjoys helping people overcome obstacles and deepen their harmony and connection with others.
 

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Kira Nurieli is the CEO of the Harmony Strategies Group and is an expert mediator, conflict coach, trainer/facilitator, consultant, and restorative practices facilitator. She has spent upwards of twenty years helping clients handle conflict and improve communication strategies and has presented at numerous conferences and symposia as a subject matter expert. She holds a Master’s degree in Organizational Psychology from Columbia University and a Bachelor’s degree in Comparative Performance from Barnard College. She especially enjoys helping individuals, teams, and lay-leaders become more impactful and empowered in their work and is honored to work alongside her esteemed colleagues with the Harmony Strategies Group.

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