Shifting from Harm to Harmony

Do You Know What an Ombuds Does?

If you asked ten people in your office what an “Ombuds” is, you’d probably get ten blank stares — maybe an eleventh person would guess it’s some kind of HR title. That confusion is common, and it’s also a missed opportunity. An Ombuds may be one of the most underused resources for building a healthier, more resilient workplace.

So, What Exactly Is an Ombuds?

An Ombuds is a confidential, neutral, and informal resource that employees, leaders, and teams can turn to when conflict, confusion, or tension arises at work. Unlike HR, an Ombuds doesn’t investigate, discipline, or make binding decisions. Instead, they listen, help people think through their options, surface patterns before they escalate, and — when appropriate — facilitate conversations that get people unstuck.

I often tell people that an Ombuds is like your dedicated, at-the-ready resource whenever frictions start to create some heat… and some leaders avoid the heat altogether, by speaking with me privately to plan for a sensitive conversation or to think strategically about the next meeting, the team culture, or whatever change is about to unfold. I’m the person who won’t gossip, won’t tattle, and will help with skills and tools for being strategic and poised.

Think of the Ombuds as a pressure-release valve for an organization.

I’ve encountered many employees who have sat on frustration for months – even years! – because they didn’t know who to talk to, or they’re afraid that raising an issue will trigger a formal process they’re not ready for or are scared and uncertain about. As Ombuds, I offered them a “parallel” path: a safe, off-the-record space to be heard, explore possibilities, and figure out next steps — without anything happening automatically.

While the role is still gaining recognition in corporate America, it’s a common role in place in higher education and government agencies.

I find nonprofit and mission-driven organizations, where trust, culture, and dignity carry real operational weight, are especially interested in the work of an Ombuds to support their mission and ensure they are living their core values.

Why Ombuds Matter More Than Ever

Modern workplaces are dealing with more complexity, more distributed teams, and more high-stakes conversations than ever before. Left unaddressed, everyday friction — a miscommunication between departments, a leader who doesn’t realize how their feedback lands, a team quietly losing trust in each other — compounds into disengagement, turnover, and larger human capital risk.

In my role as organizational Ombuds, I help catch that friction early. Done well, it isn’t just about resolving disputes; it’s about building the underlying conditions — integrity, communication competencies, and listening skills — that let leaders and teams do their best work.

The Team Bringing This to Life: Harmony Strategies Group

If you’re looking for a model of what excellent, modern Ombuds work looks like, my team and I would be delighted to help shed light on how we work. I founded Harmony Strategies to bring together those mediators, organizational psychologists, ICF-certified coaches, and experienced facilitators who specialize in exactly this kind of work: conflict management, executive coaching, restorative practices, and Fractional Ombuds services for mission-driven organizations.

I myself have spent more than two decades working as a mediator, executive and conflict coach, facilitator, and organizational Ombuds. I hold a master’s degree in Organizational Psychology from Columbia University, and have worked with organizations ranging from research institutions and government agencies to nonprofits and foundations. My team has supported clients like Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory, the MacArthur Foundation, and the U.S. Fish & Wildlife Service, among others.

What sets Harmony Strategies apart isn’t just our experience — it’s the framework I’ve built around it.

The 3D Harmony™ Model: Dignity, Dialogue, Discovery

Harmony Strategies Group’s signature approach, 3D Harmony™, is built on three interwoven principles: Dignity, Dialogue, and Discovery.

  • Dignity comes first. Before any productive conversation can happen, people need to feel that their inherent worth is recognized — especially in moments where it’s felt compromised. Without this foundation, everything that follows tends to feel hollow.
  • Dialogue builds on that foundation, creating space for open, honest communication where people can express their needs and actually be heard — not just spoken at.
  • Discovery is where the transformation happens: uncovering new possibilities, redesigning how a team works together, and turning a conflict into a genuine opportunity for growth rather than a problem to be managed and forgotten.

The idea is that these three elements aren’t sequential steps to check off — they reinforce each other. Skip dignity, and dialogue becomes performative. Skip dialogue, and discovery feels disconnected. Skip discovery, and people may feel heard, but nothing actually changes.

For organizations, this means an Ombuds practice — or any conflict resolution and coaching work — isn’t just about smoothing over a single incident. It’s about building durable habits of dignity, communication, and growth that show up in day-to-day culture, not just crisis moments.

The Payoff: Productivity and Engagement

Organizations that invest in this kind of infrastructure tend to see the effects show up in the numbers that matter: lower turnover, stronger cross-team trust, faster resolution of the small frictions that would otherwise fester, and leaders who are more equipped to handle hard conversations before they become HR cases. When people feel genuinely heard and respected, they bring more of themselves to their work — and that’s where real engagement and productivity come from.

The Takeaway

An Ombuds isn’t a nice-to-have side function — it’s a strategic layer of support that helps organizations catch problems early, keep people engaged, and build a culture where hard conversations can be effective, because people come prepared and have the skills needed to collaborate. If your organization is thinking about how to build that kind of resilience, teams like Harmony Strategies  — and frameworks like 3D Harmony™ — are worth a close look.

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Melody Wang

Melody Wang is a Conflict Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group and CEO of Wang Mediation, which she founded upon graduation from the University of Southern California, Gould School of Law with an MA in Alternative Dispute Resolution. Melody is a panel mediator for the New York City Family Court and serves on the Board of Directors at the Association for Conflict Resolution, Greater New York (ACR-GNY). Prior to moving to New York, Melody was an experienced civil and community mediator in Los Angeles, California, working closely with non-profits, small claim courts and the California federal court. She also led selected trainings and workshops on dispute resolution within the Asian-American community in California.  Melody has lived in the U.S., Taiwan, China and Singapore, is fluent in English, Mandarin Chinese and Taiwanese, and especially enjoys engaging in international relations and cross-cultural conflict systems.

Dara Rossi

Dara Rossi, Ph.D. is a Conflict & Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. She has more than 20 years of experience in the field of education and has worked with students from kindergarten through the university graduate level. Additionally, she has facilitated professional development for educators and administrators across all points on the education continuum. After10 years of service in the Department of Teaching and Learning Southern Methodist University, she launched her coaching and consulting business while continuing to serve as an adjunct professor. She holds a PhD in Curriculum and Instruction, an MBA, an MA in Dispute Resolution, and an MAT in Education, and BS in Human Development.

Isar Mahanian

Isar Mahanian, M.Sc. is a Conflict & Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. She is an active mediator who coaches new mediators in the program in which she serves. Isar has worked at a fast-paced technology start-up as the Head of Human Resources, leading senior executives to mitigate and resolve workplace conflicts and creating system level improvements for employees within the company. She holds a Master’s of Science degree in Negotiation and Conflict Resolution from Columbia University. 

Kimberly Jackson Davidson

Kimberly Jackson Davidson is currently the University Ombudsperson at George Mason University and member of the Harmony Strategies Group. She spent two decades at Oberlin College in Ohio, holding positions in the Office of the Dean of Students and as Visiting Lecturer in African American Studies. During her final five and a half years there, she served all campus constituencies as Ombudsperson and Director of the Yeworkwha Belachew Center for Dialogue (YBCD). Davidson is active within the International Ombuds Association (IOA), the California Caucus of College and University Ombuds (CCCUO), and the Ombuds Section of the Association for Conflict Resolution (ACR). She earned a B.A. in English Literature from Spelman College in 1986 and an M.A. from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in African Literature in 1991.

Hector Escalante

Hector Escalante is an experienced Ombuds and learning and development professional with over seven years of ombuds experience and over twenty years of experience developing and teaching course offerings which promote inclusion, healthy communication, and conflict resolution. He is the Director of the Ombuds Office at the University of California, Merced, having served many years as the organizational ombuds at the University of the Pacific. He is an ombuds partner with Harmony Strategies Group, and a consulting ombuds for Earthjustice and Union of Concerned Scientists.  Hector holds two master’s degrees and a doctorate in education. He is a United States Marine Corps veteran, a husband and father to four children. Hector’s passions include treating all with fairness, equity, dignity, and compassion and good food. 

Stuart Baker

Stuart Baker is a Conflict and Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. He combines decades of professional experience in the construction industry as a general contractor and carpenter and blends his project management with mediation, facilitation and workshop presentations on dispute resolution. Based on his unique combination of skills and expertise, Stuart authored the book Conscious Cooperation, a practical guide on strategic planning and negotiation for the construction and homebuilding communities. Stuart brings a broad sensitivity to his consulting work and has mediated disputes large and small – from international corporate disputes to family conflicts. Likewise, Stuart coaches and consults individuals facing business, community, religious, or family challenges. He enjoys helping people overcome obstacles and deepen their harmony and connection with others.
 

Kira Nurieli

Kira Nurieli is the CEO of the Harmony Strategies Group and is an expert mediator, conflict coach, trainer/facilitator, consultant, and restorative practices facilitator. She has spent upwards of twenty years helping clients handle conflict and improve communication strategies and has presented at numerous conferences and symposia as a subject matter expert. She holds a Master’s degree in Organizational Psychology from Columbia University and a Bachelor’s degree in Comparative Performance from Barnard College. She especially enjoys helping individuals, teams, and lay-leaders become more impactful and empowered in their work and is honored to work alongside her esteemed colleagues with the Harmony Strategies Group.

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