Shifting from Harm to Harmony

Kira Nurieli

Kira Nurieli is a certified mediator, conflict coach, workshop facilitator and consultant. She helps clients create breakthroughs in their workplace, classroom, family, and community dynamics.

Ombuds Workplace Civility

How the Ombuds Promotes Civility

In today’s diverse and dynamic work environments, fostering a culture of respect and civility is paramount. An organizational ombuds plays a crucial role in promoting workplace civility by providing a confidential, neutral, and informal resource for employees to voice concerns, resolve conflicts, and navigate challenges.​ The ombuds assists employees and managers in addressing workplace issues […]

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Workplace Bullying and Incivility

Workplace Bullying and Incivility: How to Handle Disagreement

Disagreements are a natural and necessary part of a robust workplace environment. When handled properly, they lead to innovation, improved decision-making, and stronger team dynamics. However, not all workplace conflicts are productive. There is a crucial difference between constructive disagreement and toxic behavior, such as workplace bullying and incivility. Recognizing these distinctions and knowing how

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Leadership Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence

Leadership excellence heavily relies on self-awareness and emotional intelligence. These form the bedrock upon which effective leadership is built, influencing how leaders perceive themselves, interact with others, and navigate the complexities of organizational dynamics. Self-awareness involves a deep understanding of one’s emotions, strengths, weaknesses, values, and the impact all of these have on others. Leaders

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Restorative Practices

In today’s workplaces, fostering open communication, collaboration, and trust is essential for organizational success. Restorative practices are structured approaches designed to build relationships, resolve conflicts, and create a culture of accountability and mutual respect. These practices encourage equitable engagement, active listening, and curiosity, making them powerful tools for team development, conflict resolution, and change management.

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Conflict Coaching

Schools are increasingly facing toxic polarization between students and even among staff. Individuals are  struggling to have their voices heard in productive ways, leading to conflict escalations and tensions in the  classrooms and beyond. Teens and young adults are especially at a loss for how to effectively navigate through a  sensitive conversation with poise, self-awareness,

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Mediation Skills

Mediation skills equip leaders, executives, managers and staff with the essential knowledge and techniques required to effectively mediate conflicts and facilitate resolution processes. Participants are introduced to the theory, principles, and practical applications of mediation in various workplace contexts, emphasizing how interpersonal dynamics play a role in conflict escalation and resolution. The Harmony Strategies mediation

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Organizational Effectiveness

This workshop is designed to help teams and leaders enhance productivity, communication, and overall workplace harmony. Through interactive exercises and expert facilitation, we guide participants in identifying structural inefficiencies, improving decision-making processes, and fostering a culture of collaboration and resilience. This workshop is ideal for organizations seeking to optimize workflows, align teams with their mission,

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Conflict Management 101: What Senior Leaders Need to Know

Join the Harmony Strategies Group for an introductory session that provides a basic overview of conflict management skills for managers and leaders. We review common pitfalls, traits that build and maintain collaborative teams, and why and how to engage a dedicated conflict management expert as a company-wide resource.

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Cultural Humility

Many companies and organizations are making conscious efforts to further integration of individuals of different backgrounds, ethnicities, and cultures into collaborative projects and processes. It’s equally important for these organizations to have an open and welcoming culture that ensures that all voices are appreciated and can thrive. A truly inclusive workplace is one where employees

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Effective Communication

Miscommunication in the workplace can cripple productivity and stifle innovation. Interpersonal dialogue can be misinterpreted, causing tension, stress, and depressive workplace environments. This workshop highlights best practices for effective and fluid communication across and among teams. Whether the communication is written or verbal, aggressive or passive, we hone in on the subtleties that make communication

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Unconscious Bias

We all rely on our perceptions, experiences, and interpretations to define our values, beliefs, and behaviors. But often we are unaware of the filters that exist in our minds and how these filters can work against our best interests. Unconscious bias affects our friendships and relationships, and they also play out in recruitment, promotions, performance

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Stress Management

Stress and anxiety are real challenges in today’s professional workplace.  Stress can be a toxic internal pollutant that is distracting and upsetting, yet it also can be a driver for bold and beneficial action, when handled and managed appropriately. In this workshop, we identify and evaluate internal sources and forces of stress, creating a rich awareness

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Emotional Intelligence

Effective managers are those who have solid self-awareness and sensitivity to the emotional health of their teams. This workshop provides an overview of what Emotional IQ means, exercises to deepen self-awareness, and practical guidelines for connecting with your staff and teams. This workshop guides managers to: Explore emotional triggers and how they are expressed Consider

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Culture & Diversity

At its core, embracing diversity is about cultural awareness and sensitivity. It is the ability to interact effectively with individuals of varying backgrounds, races, religions, genders, and more. It also lays the groundwork for productivity and healthy collaboration, through building trust and understanding, both internally and in client-facing interactions. Externally, cultural diversity allows businesses and

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Focusing Inwards

One of the key traits of a strategic conflict expert — like an Ombuds, mediator, or conflict coach — is contrarian thinking. I specialize in noticing what my clients missed, considering alternative approaches, and bringing to light different perspectives. When a client says “she’s acting this way,” I immediately question “what if she could act that way?” or if

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Melody Wang

Melody Wang is a Conflict Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group and CEO of Wang Mediation, which she founded upon graduation from the University of Southern California, Gould School of Law with an MA in Alternative Dispute Resolution. Melody is a panel mediator for the New York City Family Court and serves on the Board of Directors at the Association for Conflict Resolution, Greater New York (ACR-GNY). Prior to moving to New York, Melody was an experienced civil and community mediator in Los Angeles, California, working closely with non-profits, small claim courts and the California federal court. She also led selected trainings and workshops on dispute resolution within the Asian-American community in California.  Melody has lived in the U.S., Taiwan, China and Singapore, is fluent in English, Mandarin Chinese and Taiwanese, and especially enjoys engaging in international relations and cross-cultural conflict systems.

Dara Rossi

Dara Rossi, Ph.D. is a Conflict & Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. She has more than 20 years of experience in the field of education and has worked with students from kindergarten through the university graduate level. Additionally, she has facilitated professional development for educators and administrators across all points on the education continuum. After10 years of service in the Department of Teaching and Learning Southern Methodist University, she launched her coaching and consulting business while continuing to serve as an adjunct professor. She holds a PhD in Curriculum and Instruction, an MBA, an MA in Dispute Resolution, and an MAT in Education, and BS in Human Development.

Isar Mahanian

Isar Mahanian, M.Sc. is a Conflict & Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. She is an active mediator who coaches new mediators in the program in which she serves. Isar has worked at a fast-paced technology start-up as the Head of Human Resources, leading senior executives to mitigate and resolve workplace conflicts and creating system level improvements for employees within the company. She holds a Master’s of Science degree in Negotiation and Conflict Resolution from Columbia University. 

Kimberly Jackson Davidson

Kimberly Jackson Davidson is currently the University Ombudsperson at George Mason University and member of the Harmony Strategies Group. She spent two decades at Oberlin College in Ohio, holding positions in the Office of the Dean of Students and as Visiting Lecturer in African American Studies. During her final five and a half years there, she served all campus constituencies as Ombudsperson and Director of the Yeworkwha Belachew Center for Dialogue (YBCD). Davidson is active within the International Ombuds Association (IOA), the California Caucus of College and University Ombuds (CCCUO), and the Ombuds Section of the Association for Conflict Resolution (ACR). She earned a B.A. in English Literature from Spelman College in 1986 and an M.A. from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in African Literature in 1991.

Hector Escalante

Hector Escalante is an experienced Ombuds and learning and development professional with over seven years of ombuds experience and over twenty years of experience developing and teaching course offerings which promote inclusion, healthy communication, and conflict resolution. He is the Director of the Ombuds Office at the University of California, Merced, having served many years as the organizational ombuds at the University of the Pacific. He is an ombuds partner with Harmony Strategies Group, and a consulting ombuds for Earthjustice and Union of Concerned Scientists.  Hector holds two master’s degrees and a doctorate in education. He is a United States Marine Corps veteran, a husband and father to four children. Hector’s passions include treating all with fairness, equity, dignity, and compassion and good food. 

Stuart Baker

Stuart Baker is a Conflict and Strategy Consultant with the Harmony Strategies Group. He combines decades of professional experience in the construction industry as a general contractor and carpenter and blends his project management with mediation, facilitation and workshop presentations on dispute resolution. Based on his unique combination of skills and expertise, Stuart authored the book Conscious Cooperation, a practical guide on strategic planning and negotiation for the construction and homebuilding communities. Stuart brings a broad sensitivity to his consulting work and has mediated disputes large and small – from international corporate disputes to family conflicts. Likewise, Stuart coaches and consults individuals facing business, community, religious, or family challenges. He enjoys helping people overcome obstacles and deepen their harmony and connection with others.
 

Kira Nurieli

Kira Nurieli is the CEO of the Harmony Strategies Group and is an expert mediator, conflict coach, trainer/facilitator, consultant, and restorative practices facilitator. She has spent upwards of twenty years helping clients handle conflict and improve communication strategies and has presented at numerous conferences and symposia as a subject matter expert. She holds a Master’s degree in Organizational Psychology from Columbia University and a Bachelor’s degree in Comparative Performance from Barnard College. She especially enjoys helping individuals, teams, and lay-leaders become more impactful and empowered in their work and is honored to work alongside her esteemed colleagues with the Harmony Strategies Group.

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